Monday, November 26, 2012

Quote of the Day

. . .  [With regard to the 'marriage amendment'] Minnesota’s Catholic community was divided by robust lay dissent from the official position of the Archdiocese. Catholic leaders, starting with Archbishop Nienstadt, led an energetic (some said heavy handed) effort to approve the amendment. They invested large sums of money. They instructed priests and parochial school teachers about how they in turn should instruct parishioners and students. Several faculty of the Catholic University of St. Thomas published opinion pieces asserting Catholic natural law theology in defense of “traditional marriage.” The archbishop forbade priests from expressing dissent over this basic position.

But many lay Catholics opposed the amendment. Catholics for Marriage Equality MN (C4ME-MN) coordinated efforts to articulate and publish Catholic reasons to support marriage equality. Yard signs boasting “Another Catholic Voting No” were a common sight. Though no exit polls that I know of measured Catholic voting patterns on the amendment, national polls suggest that up to 70 percent of Catholic laity support marriage equality. So the story of the Catholic community in Minnesota’s marriage conversation was not that “the Church” supported the amendment. The story was that official Catholicism supported the amendment, while large numbers of lay Catholics (and some dissident priests) did not. Faith-based concern for justice led many to oppose what they saw as the injustice of the amendment. . . .

– David Booth
November 26, 2012

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Thank You!


On behalf of the Catholics for Marriage Equality MN board of directors, I extend heartfelt thanks and gratitude to all who contributed to the defeat of the ‘marriage amendment.’

If passed, this amendment would have been a major obstacle to the movement toward marriage equality in our state. With its defeat, we can now continue in the work of (i) ensuring civil marriage rights for all, regardless of sexual orientation, and (ii) educating our fellow Catholics on how such work is supported by the very best elements of our faith tradition.

Let us celebrate this historic victory for justice, compassion and the common good. Let us also pray for those troubled and confused by the defeat of the amendment. May our continued conversations cultivate respect and understanding. Let us pray, too, for healing, as this issue has caused great hurt and divisiveness within families, parishes and communities.

Finally, let us pray for Archbishop Nienstedt and the bishops of Minnesota; that the rejection of the amendment they actively and controversially supported may give them pause to reassess their priorities and refocus their energies and our church’s financial resources on activities that reflect the core tenets of our faith as embodied by Jesus.


Michael Bayly
Executive Coordinator, Catholics for Marriage Equality MN

Monday, November 5, 2012

In St. Cloud, A Prayer Vigil for Peace, Justice, Hope and Healing

On Sunday, November 4, 2012, close to 30 people participated in a prayer vigil outside the chancery of Minnesota's St. Cloud Diocese. Organized by area Catholics, the vigil was billed as a "loving, peaceful and respectful" gathering.

The purpose of the vigil was to pray for peace, justice, hope, and healing around the divisive 'marriage amendment.' The Prayer of St. Francis, which was prayed out loud a number of times, reflected well the purpose of the event and the intent of those who gathered.

C4ME-MN executive coordinator Michael Bayly traveled from the Twin Cities to attend the vigil. On his blog The Wild Reed he wrote:
It felt good to be part of this gathering, and I was heartened by its loving and hopeful energy. Kelly Doss (left) did a beautiful job organizing the vigil, along with a number of previous events in St. Cloud, all of which focused on why as Catholics we can oppose the 'marriage amendment.'

Related Links:
Minnesota Marriage Fight Cuts Deep for Catholics – Patrick Condon (Associated Press via the San Francisco Chronicle, November 3, 2012).
"This is the Living Word"Sensus Fidelium (March 28, 2012).
Voting No and No: A Catholic Perspective – Jamie L. Manson (Sensus Fidelium, October 25, 2012).
Why Catholics Can Vote 'No' – Fr. Bob Pierson, OSB (Sensus Fidelium, June 11, 2012).
Polls Show Gay Marriage Leading in Minnesota, Maine – Tom Kludt (TPM, November 4, 2012).
The Amendment is About More Than Marriage; It’s About Putting Gays Back in the Closet – Andy Birkey (, November 5, 2012).

Images: Michael J. Bayly.

Saturday, October 27, 2012

143 Faculty of the College of St. Benedict and St. John's University Sign Statement Opposing MN 'Marriage Amendment'

Following is the text of a full-page ad that faculty at the College of St. Benedict and St. John’s University (central Minnesota) published Friday, October 26, 2012 in the schools’ newspaper, The Record. One hundred and forty-three faculty signed the statement which calls the proposed Minnesota 'marriage amendment' an "unjust attack on gay and lesbian people." Vincent M. Smiles, Professor of Theology, Andy Holey, Professor of Computer Science, and Michael Livingston, Professor of Psychology, are the principal authors/signers of the statement.


A Statement in Opposition to the
Minnesota Marriage Amendment

We, the undersigned, are members of the teaching faculty and staff of the College of Saint Benedict and Saint John’s University. We regard the proposed Minnesota Marriage Amendment on the November 6 ballot as an unjust attack on gay and lesbian people and at variance with our community’s best traditions and values.

We speak only for ourselves – not for any departments or institutions. We respect the neutral position on the amendment that the administrations of our two colleges have taken. They rightly encourage careful study of the issue, and so do we. We also respect the right of our students and other citizens to make their own informed choices on how to vote.
We speak as educators who have studied numerous aspects of same-sex marriage. The backers of the proposed amendment claim that a “No” vote will damage marriage, violate religious liberty, endanger children and generally lead to moral decline in society. We dispute such claims.

Current Minnesota law does not provide for same-sex marriage, and a “No” vote on the proposed amendment would not make same-sex marriage legal. A “No” vote would simply allow for a thoughtful public conversation about when and how to guarantee equal protection of the law to same-sex couples. A “Yes” vote will permanently make them second-class citizens. We believe this is wrong.

The proposed amendment is inconsistent with the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution, which states: “No state…shall deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.” Similarly, Minnesota’s constitution guarantees that “No member of this state shall be disenfranchised or deprived of any of the rights or privileges secured to any citizen thereof.” Though Minnesota law does not currently provide for same-sex marriage, the Minnesota Human Rights Act prohibits discrimination in housing and employment on the basis of sexual orientation. Passage of the proposed Marriage Amendment would be an ominous move in the opposite direction.

Both the First Amendment of the United States Constitution and the Minnesota Constitution guarantee religious liberty and separation of church and state. Laws permitting same-sex marriage would violate no one’s religious liberty. All churches would be free to perform or not perform marriages according to their own beliefs.

Differences in race or class were once taken as insurmountable obstacles to marriage, but today most people recognize that mutual love and respect are the foundations of married love. In 1967 the U.S. Supreme Court struck down laws prohibiting interracial marriage because such laws denied “equal protection of the laws” to interracial couples. We believe that laws banning same-sex marriage are essentially no different from laws that once banned interracial marriages.

Though the Catholic Bishops of Minnesota are calling on Catholics to vote “Yes,” there is, in fact, significant disagreement in the Catholic Church on same-sex marriage. Numerous theologians believe that the Bible cannot properly be invoked in support of a ban on same-sex marriage. Catholic faith defends the sanctity of individual conscience, and Catholics are not obligated to vote “Yes” on this amendment. Moreover, Catholic teaching alone cannot form the basis of civil law in a republic of many faiths and traditions.

According to the Second Vatican Council (1962-65), Catholic theologians must take into account “new sciences and theories,” so that “morality may keep pace with scientific knowledge.” (1) It is in light of this guidance that many theologians have allowed insights of psychology and sociology to inform their theology, and they have concluded that homosexuality is natural, and that same-sex unions are compatible with Catholic faith. Indeed, theologians long ago argued that pastors might appropriately bless same-sex unions. (2)

Quality empirical research has shown that children raised by same-sex couples have similar outcomes to children raised by heterosexual couples. The research has consistently demonstrated that children’s well-being is most directly related to the quality of parenting, not the gender or sexual orientation of the parents. (3) Research has also shown that discriminatory laws and attitudes are harmful to same-sex families and their children. So, while advocates for passing the Marriage Amendment claim it is needed to protect families and children, it would likely have the opposite impact on many families.

In states of the USA and in countries around the world where same-sex unions and marriages are legal marriage has not been destroyed. Men and women continue to marry and (sadly) to be divorced at approximately the same rate as in states and countries where same-sex unions and marriages are not permitted. There is no evidence in these places that same-sex unions and marriages have caused any moral decline in society.

Gay men and lesbians have long been suffering the sting of discrimination. Suicide among homosexual teenagers occurs at an alarming rate. The good news is that more and more people are recognizing that homosexuality is like left-handedness–in the minority, but perfectly natural. As in the days of the civil rights movement for African Americans, Minnesota can again lead the country on a civil rights issue, this time by being the first state to reject this kind of discriminatory amendment. We urge the citizens of Minnesota to do so.

Vincent Smiles, Theology
Andy Holey, Computer Science
Michael Livingston, Psychology
John Merkle, Theology
Tony Cunningham, Philosophy
Lisa Platt, Psychology
Lindsay Anderson, Nursing
Mike Ross, Chemistry
Janet Grochowski, Education
Rodger Narloch, Psychology
Henry Jakubowski, Chemistry
Janelle Hinchley, First Year Seminar & Gender Studies
James Poff, Biology
Phil Chu, Biology
Gordon Brown, Biology
Parker Wheatley, Economics
Carol Brash, Fine Arts
Karyl Daughters, Communication
Gladys White, Hispanic Studies
Ernest Diedrich, Economics
Bruce Campbell, Hispanic Studies
Ozzie Mayers, English
Stephen Stelzner, Psychology
Derek Larson, History & Environmental Studies
Brian Campbell, Music
Pam Bacon, Psychology
Linda Tennison, Psychology
Carol Jansky, Biology
Clayton Gearhart, Physics (emeritus)
Jonathon Carlson, Library
Ingrid Smiles, CSB Campus Ministry
David Wuolu, Library
Wendy Klepetar, Global Business Leadership
Benjamin Faber, Psychology
William Lamberts, Biology
Scott Richardson, Modern and Classical Languagues
Samuel Johnson, Fine Arts
Bruce Thornton, Music
Jessica O’Reilly, Sociology
Jessica Harkins, English
Sigrid Hedman-Dennis, Nursing
Thomas Sibley, Mathematics
Matt Callahan, English
Patricia Bolanos, Hispanic Studies & Gender Studies
Kathleen Costello, First Year Seminar
Erica Stonestreet, Philosophy
Allison Spenader, Education
Kelly Kraemer, Peace Studies
Jennifer Galovich, Mathematics
Bret Benesh, Mathematics
Matthew Harkins, English
Yuko Shibata, Modern and Classical Languages & Asian Studies
Luann Reif, Nursing
Maureen McCarter, Modern and Classical Languages
Janna LaFountaine, Exercise Science and Sports Studies
Carrie Braun, Nursing
Marcus Webster, Biology
Cynthia Curran, History
James Schnepf, Computer Science
Martha Tomhave Blauvelt, Gender Studies
Tess Kasling, Library
Karen Erickson, Modern and Classical Languages
David Malone, Library
Elizabeth Wurdak, Biology
Gary Prevost, Political Science
Juliann Heller, Theology
Susan Riley, History
Christi Siver, Political Science
Kathy Twohy, Nursing
Patricia Kennedy, Theology
Robert Hesse, Mathematics
Andrea Shaker, Fine Arts
John Miller, Computer Science
Elaine Rutherford, Fine Arts
Sarah Schaaf, Hispanic Studies
Manuel Campos, Biology
Luke Mancuso, English
Madhu Mitra, English
Charles Wright, Philosphy
Angela Erickson-Grussing, Hispanic Studies
David Mitchell, Biology
Jillian Hiscock, Admissions
Richard Bohannon, Environmental Studies
John Olson, Economics
Jacqueline Corral, Admissions
Joy Ruis, Office for Education Abroad
Sarah Pruett, ESC Coordinator
Eleonora Bertranou, Hispanic Studies
Jillian RIgg McKenzie, Admissions
Brooke Horejsi, Fine Arts Programing
Christina Shouse Tourino, English
Molly Ewing, Library
Edmund Sass, Education
Kaarin S. Johnston, Theater
Jeffrey Anderson, Peace Studies
Patricia Kent, Music
Tania Gomez, Hispanic Studies
Kathleen Parker, Library
Cindy Malone, English
Corey Shouse Tourino, Hispanic Studies
Shane Miller, Communication
Jean Keller, Philosophy
Rachelle Larson, Nursing
Nicholas Jones, Chemistry
Mark Mortrude, Education
Wendy Sterba, Modern and Classical Languages
Jean Ochu, Accounting and Finance
David Bennetts, History
Shannon Essler Petty, Education
Leigh Dillard, Theater
Diane Veale-Jones, Environmental Studies
Nelsy Echarvez-Solano, Hispanic Studies
Timothy Robinson, Philosophy
Matt Lindstrom, Political Science
Elena Sanchez Mora, Hispanic Studies
Jean Lavigne, Environmental Studies
Michael Opitz, English
Gregory Walker, Music
Jennifer Schaefer, Biology
Megan Vetsch, Fine Arts Programing
Angeline Dufner, English (Emeritus)
Joe Rogers, Global Education
Kenneth Jones, History
Janet Neuwirth, Nursing
Anna Mercedes, Theology
Bridget Sitzer, Admissions
Allan Bouley, Theology (Emeritus)
Michael Roske, Abby Woodworking
Peggy Roske, CSB/SJU Archives
Philip Kronebusch, Political Science
Peggy Retka, Office for Education Abroad
Kevin Knodl, Fine Arts Programing
Manju Parikh, Political Science
J. Scott Johnson, Political Science
Elisabeth Wengler, History
Roy Ketchum, Hispanic Studies
Stephen Wagner, Philosophy
Beth Pettitt, Biology
Lisa Drontle, Music
Julie Davis, History
Todd Johnson, Physics
Robert Kachelski, Psychology
Gregory Schroeder, History

(1) "The Church in the Modern World," #62.
(2) A. Kosnik et al., Human Sexuality: New Directions in American Catholic Thought, a Study Commissioned by the Catholic Theological Society of America (Paulist Press, 1977) 215-16.
(3) The American Psychological Association's "Resolution on Sexual Orientation, Parents, and Children" (adopted July 28 and 30, 2004) can be found here.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Voting No and No: A Catholic Perspective

By Jamie L. Manson

Presented to Catholics for Marriage Equality MN, September 29, 2012.

Note: To print and distribute this transcript, click here.

I am honored to be asked to speak to you during such a momentous time in the history of Minnesota. It is one thing when a state debates new laws and statutes, but when citizens are faced with the possibility of amending their constitution, their founding document, the stakes are so much higher. Laws can be tweaked or improved after they go into effect. Constitutional amendments, however, as you all well know, are much more radical.

An amendment is not ordinary rule of law, and when an amendment passes, it is much harder to change, it is above the heads of everyone, and, perhaps most seriously, it imposes itself very seriously on future generations.

Both amendments will alter the course of civil rights in this state and will place significant limits on the freedoms of the citizens of Minnesota. In the case of voter id, laws that were won after many bloody struggles for voting rights fought in the 1960s, most notably the historic march from Selma to Montgomery, will be put in jeopardy. Once again, arbitrary barriers, will prevent U.S. citizens from exercising one of their most fundamental rights.

In the case of the marriage amendment, the possibility of achieving equal rights and equal protections under the law for same-sex couples will become far more difficult, far more out of reach.

It is shocking in this day and age that civil rights issues can be put on a ballot and decided by a general election. But this is the situation before Minnesota. They are decisions that have been faced by other states, sometimes with tragic consequences.

Voting No and No is the only way to ensure that civil rights will be protected for our most marginalized citizens, be they LGBT couples, or the poor, the elderly, the disabled, the students many of whom will likely not meet the requirements for voter ID.

We have heard from a panel of experts tonight [Eric Fought of Our Vote, Our Future and Jonathan Maurer-Jones of Minnesotans United for All Families] about what makes both amendments so wrong for us as citizens in the United States.

I’ve been invited tonight to explore with you why both amendments are so wrong for us as Catholics, and what kind of response both amendments demand of those of us who value the Catholic social justice tradition – a tradition that, in the vale of tears that our hierarchy has been leading us through, has been a life line, keeping us connected and proud of our Catholic identities, helping us to remain faithful to the tradition, even if we cannot abide by many of the political moves and exclusionary tactics put into play by the hierarchy.

When it comes to creating scandal lately – whether its about denying communion, or penalizing the work of women religious, or failing to speak clearly and strongly against the Ryan budget, or creating hysteria through false claims about religious freedom – the hierarchy truly have been gift that keeps on giving.

But, to me, hierarchy’s willingness to speak so ardently against same-sex marriage, to funnel so much money into anti-marriage equality campaigns through organizations like the Knights of Columbus, to produce and send out anti-gay DVDs, to write letters to each of you asking for donations to fund TV ads, to mobilize volunteers, and to otherwise harp on this issue, while also saying so little about Voter ID, is to me one of the greatest scandals being committed by the Roman Catholic Church right now.

It is of course very possible that church leaders haven’t said as much as they should against voter ID because they do not want to displease those conservative political allies who share their anti-marriage equality or religious freedom agendas. As has been proven time and time again, in the hierarchy of issues that matter to the Roman Catholic bishops, pelvic zone issues occupy the very top of the pyramid, while issues related to the poor and vulnerable fall to the bottom.

In the past few months, there have been several startling cases in which the hierarchy has practically used the poor as pawns in their fight against marriage equality.

Back in April, the New York Times reported on social service groups who are being denied funding by the Catholic Campaign for Human Development (CCHD) because of “supposed” alliances with organizations that support equal rights for gay, lesbian, and transgender persons. These are groups that support immigrants, victims of HIV/AIDS, the homeless who have made alliances with groups that also happen to have made alliances with groups that advocate for civil unions or same-sex marriage. And for that, the church is denying them crucial grants.

Add to this scandal, the foster children who were abandoned by Catholic Charities in Illinois because of a law allowing gay and lesbian parents to adopt children, and we begin to realize that one injustice gives birth to many more. And injustice for one population within our church, is injustice for all of the God’s people.

LGBT people aren’t the only ones who lose in these ideological battles. The poor, the immigrants, the homeless, the orphans, and the sick do, too. The hierarchy is letting the ideology of extreme social conservatives, not the teachings of the Gospel, determine where and how the poor will receive aid.

We saw this reality, this spring when explosive documents were released confirming what many in the marriage equality movement had long suspected. For years, the right-wing National Organization for Marriage (NOM) has intentionally tried to galvanize the black community against the gay community.

NOM also targeted Latinos with a strategy to “interrupt the process of assimilation” that could sway them to support gay rights. Their goal was to tap “glamorous” Latin American spokespeople to speak out against marriage equality.

One of NOM’s strongest allies has been the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops and one of their key funders is the Knights of Columbus.

In their zeal to defeat marriage equality, the bishops have colluded in a system where blacks and Latinos were exploited as political tools. Which leaves me asking, how many more of its own social justice doctrines will the hierarchy continue to defy in its hell-bent desire to deny gays and lesbian equal protection under the law? How many social evils will the Catholic hierarchy ignore, how many injustices will they overlook, in order to fulfill its mission against equality for members of the LGBT community?

But, as Ricardo Levins Morales has pointed out in his recent Twin Cities Daily Planet article, in the case of Voter ID, this strategy will eventually backfire on the bishops.

Morales argues that, though both amendments have different goals, both fights share a strategic link:

“The ‘Voter ID’ amendment,” he says, “is a power play. It’s the lynchpin of the Right Wing’s current strategy to win control of the legislative, executive and judicial branches of government and impose their regressive agenda on society. The idea is to place enough obstacles in the way of voting--designed to disadvantage poor folks, people of color, students, the homeless and the disabled--to tip elections their way.”

Morales continues, “Only a small percentage of these people would need to be disenfranchised in order for the plan to be effective. Depressed voter turnout – along with unlimited corporate cash – would secure Tea Party/Koch Brothers/Republican dominance in state legislatures thus giving them control over Congressional redistricting plans, ensuring their electoral advantage for the foreseeable future.”

Where gay marriage has grabbed a lot of attention and a decent amount of funding, Voter ID has attracted less attention. And that is precisely the goal of the conservative developers of the amendment. “While everyone has rushed to defend the front door of fighting for gay rights,” Morales says, “the vote suppression commandos are sneaking in the back, disabling the burglar alarm and preparing to seize the property.”

Therefore, if Voter ID passes, LGBT rights will become one of many issues that will be in the metaphorical crosshairs of right wing law-makers. Every issue from early childhood education or sustainable food production or collective bargaining or civil liberties or accessible health care will be in jeopardy if conservatives, tea partyers, are allowed this much power.

“In the case of the Catholic Church,” Morales writes, “volunteers are pounding the pavement for the Marriage Amendment in Minnesota, unaware that they are pawns in a political power grab that would ultimately undue many of the social values they hold to,” like government entitlements that care for the elderly, poor and homeless, or protections for immigrants.

In the long and short term, many of the support systems that at the core of Catholic social teaching could be at risk if voter id passes.

But what if we had no personal investment in voter id? What if, as LGBT persons and allies, voter id would have no impact on the future of our civil rights? Should we still be invested in it?

My reading of Catholic social justice teaching tells us, yes, absolutely.

What if the marriage amendment had to direct impact on us or our families? What if only the voter id amendment would impact us or our communities. Should we still be invested in it?

My reading of Catholic social justice teaching tells us, yes, absolutely.

The modern social teaching of the church is found primarily in papal encyclicals and documents produced by synods of bishops. Starting with Leo XIII’s Rerum Novarum in 1891, the body of thought has evolved through the years, shaped by the social, economic, political and cultural realities of the times. But even though each document is developed in response to the needs of the historical period in which the document was written, certain key themes pervade all of teachings. They are, to name a few: Primacy of the person; the protect of human dignity and human rights; participation as a basic right; solidarity of the human family; and the special claim of the poor and vulnerable.

All documents call Christians to work for structures to make a more just and peaceful world. They call individuals play a key role in responding to unjust situations because action for justice is a constituent part of being Christian.

Throughout the documents, church consistently supports democracy as "the best expression of the direct participation of citizens in political choices." With it comes a responsibility to work toward the integral promotion of the human person and the common good.

And a number of the documents seemed almost tailored to questions about voter ID.

In 1963 in the encyclical Pacem in Terris, John XXIII affirms full range of human rights as the basis for peace. (1)

In 1979, in the encyclical called Redeemer of Humankind, John Paul II focuses on threats to human dignity and freedom, including obstacles to full participation in society and the political process.

In 1971, Paul VI, writing on the 80th anniversary of Rerum Novarum in a document called “Call to Action,” addresses the struggle of what he calls the “new poor”: which includes the elderly, the handicapped, and the cities' marginalized—people disadvantaged because of urbanization. (Interesting, these are the populations of people who would be most affected by voter ID.) He notes the lingering discrimination because of race, origin, color, culture, sex, and religion. He stresses personal responsibility on the part of Christians in seeing that injustice is challenged. In combating injustice, we are called to focus on political action—not just economic action. We are encouraged as individual Christians and local churches to apply gospel principles of justice to contemporary situations and take appropriate political action. (2)

As these social justice documents have developed over the past two centuries, three key elements have emerged out of the teaching.

The first is subsidiarity. A word that has come up quite a bit in Catholic discussions about the Ryan budget.

As Professor Gerald Bayer wrote recently in a critique of the Ryan budget in America magazine, “the principle of subsidiarity was developed to ensure that governments work in tandem with individuals and local groups to promote the common good. In other words, subsidiarity protects the right and duty of participation. Persons cannot fulfill their right and duty to participation if they suffer from poverty, discrimination, unemployment, untreated illnesses, etc. Both civil society and the state have the responsibility to create the conditions for the full participation of all in the common good.”

The second key element is solidarity, which, according to Bayer, requires “advocating for social change on the structural level. This is the case because eliminating the causes of the suffering of the wounded and oppressed requires embodying solidarity in social policies and institutions. In other words, solidarity includes but goes beyond charity to promote justice and human rights, particularly by empowering the marginalized. Charity is important, but never sufficient to meet the needs of the poor”--even Pope Benedict says so in recently letter Caritas in Veritate.

Both of these principles, subsidiarity and solidarity, are the elements that make up the cornerstone of Catholic Social teaching: protecting and promoting the Common Good.

The third key element is bound up in a phrase that most Catholics have heard of, many have invoked, but few understand how radical it really is: that is, the preferential option for the poor. In fact, if the Roman Catholic hierarchy were faithful to the preferential option for the poor, not only would they lose all of their allies in the Republican party, they would be the Tea Party’s public enemy number one.

Why? Because the preferential option for the poor not only demands that we think of the poor first in all of our decision-making—that the needs and impact on the poor should be our first priority and consideration—but that the poor, vulnerable and marginalized should have the best of everything. For example, in this ongoing fight about access to healthcare, the preferential option for the poor would say that those who have the least, who are least able to contribute, should have the very best in medical care.

It’s the polar opposite of the pull your own weight and “trickle down” rhetoric we’ve been hearing about in our political discourse lately.

It is a very challenging teaching, and it is challenging precisely because it is rooted in the gospel message. It is based on the belief, put forth famously in the parable of the prodigal son, in a God who offers effusive amounts of gifts and mercy to those who, by rational human standards, don’t deserve it.

It is a teaching as radical as Jesus was. And I don’t think there is any religious tradition – Christian or non-Christian – that parallels it.

Why are these social justice teachings so unique to the Catholic tradition? Because they are based on another tradition that is uniquely Catholic: our sacramental understanding of the world.

I didn't know much about the Catholic sacramental tradition until I had to step outside of it. I grew up on Long Island where, it seemed, everyone was either Catholic or Jewish. I did not meet a Protestant until I was in my early twenties.

I went from this working class, Italian Catholic upbringing in New York to this ivy-league school with forty different kinds of Protestants.

I had studied theology for four years as an undergraduate. But in my theology classes at Yale, I studied Protestant theologians with some very Protestant classmates. I noticed that when many of them talked about God, they spoke of God as “holy other.” God, for them, seemed outside the realm of day to day human experience. Their theological discourse centered on ideas about “justification” and “sanctification.” Language that was quite new to me.

I had come out of a Catholic high school and college where I learned about the God of Dorothy Day, I learned about the God of Oscar Romero, the God whose face we see in the poor. I learned about that God that we see in brokenness, the God who emerges in the gutter. I learned about the God of the mystics; the omnipresent God of Teilhard de Chardin. The God who is everywhere. And suddenly I wasn’t hearing about that God in my Divinity School classes.

I went into a crisis. I thought I mustn’t have any gift for theology. I thought I had a calling. So I made an appointment with a professor named Margaret Farley to help me understand my struggles and discern my future.

And she said, "Jamie, don't worry. Don't leave Yale. You're just a Catholic. You have a sacramental view of the world."

She explained that, as a Catholics, certain beliefs were just ingrained in us. And, going all the way back to the Reformation, Catholic and Calvinists had significant differences in the we understood human nature and the power of grace. The key theological concept that distinguished the Catholic view from the Calvinist view was in the understanding of the relationship between grace and nature.

In old, traditional Protestantism – you don't hear this much in the mainline tradition like the church we’re in tonight, but you still hear this in the evangelical tradition – human beings were seen as wholly depraved. Humanity is sinful and fallen, and God saves human beings in spite of themselves. In Calvinism, the human person had to die to the old self, and then God, through God's grace would make you new, would make you reborn in Christ.

For the Catholic, grace perfects nature. In Catholic theology, human beings are a mess, and we're born into a very messy world, but there's intrinsic goodness in us, because we're created by God, and everything that God creates is good. So God redeems us only from our sinfulness, not from who we are. For Catholics, there is a dynamic relationship with God, and human beings cooperate in their own transformation. And quite often we grow in our relationship and understanding of God through our relationships with one another.

Catholics have a sacramental view of the world. For a Catholic, all of creation is good, and everything in our finite world can be a vessel of God’s presence and God’s transforming grace. All of our human relationships have the possibility of bringing the life of God into the world. That includes encounters that we have with other human beings, including the poor, the vulnerable and the desolate. Those encounters are brimming with the potential to encounter God. As Jesus tells us in Matthew 25, it is in doing something for the hungry, thirsty, naked, sick and prisoner that we actually get to do something to God, to touch God, to encounter God. This idea provides the foundation for Catholicism’s rich sacramental theology and it this theology that truly gives life and meaning to social justice doctrine.

Why? Because Social Justice teachings about the Common Good, subsidiarity, solidarity and the preferential option for the poor are all derived from our sacramental understanding of human beings. It is rooted in Catholic belief in the intrinsic goodness in all of people, because we all are God’s children. Our human dignity is based upon the belief that we are created in God’s image and likeness. God’s image radiates from every human face, whether gay or straight, elderly or sick, poor or vulnerable.

Now, understanding and believing deeply in this sacramental theology has caused me profound confusion when I consider not only the Roman Catholic hierarchy’s treatment of same-sex couples, but it’s unholy alliances with anti-gay Evangelical groups in the fight against marriage equality.

Given Calvin’s ideas about total depravity and the human being having to completely die to the old self, it’s easier to understand why Evangelicals believe that that no good can come out of a same sex relationship and why it is possible to get “reparative therapy” for being gay: it’s just part of the process of dying to the old, irredeemable self, right?

But in the Catholic understanding of grace and nature, this rich idea that the sacred can come forth in any corner of the world or out of even the most unexpected person, the harsh critiques that we hear from Catholic hierarchs about LGBT persons just don’t make theological sense.

Official Roman Catholic teaching bases its teaching on homosexuality the theory of natural law, arguing that all sex acts must take place within the state of marriage and must have the potential to create new life. This is why, according to the doctrine, sexual intercourse must always be involved in any sexual activity between a wife and husband.

Since same-sex couples do not have “complementing genders” and, therefore, cannot procreate, the church believes their relationships are by their very nature inferior and, in fact, intrinsically disordered.

In our post-Vatican II milieu, most of us have recognized that procreation alone does not lead to the flourishing of married couples. Many couples that choose not to reproduce or who are infertile have demonstrated that their relationships can be just as fruitful and life-giving as marriages that produce children. So why can’t the doctrine extend to same-sex couples?

If a sacrament is a sign of God’s grace, it follows that relationships that are a signs of God’s love, mercy, forgiveness, and faithfulness are sacramental. These signs of grace are part of the new life that married couples are called to bring into the world, with or without children.

As I learned from my childhood, witnessing many unhappily married couples, complementing genders and an ability to reproduce in no way guarantees that a marriage will be graced or sacramental. A marriage is good and holy because it help both partners to grow in generosity, compassion, mercy, and faithfulness.

There are far more ways to be fruitful than simply conceiving children. Some married couples are called to raise children. But all married couples are called to bring the life of God into the world by caring for one another, working to mend our broken world, and by being a sign of faithfulness to our community.

That many gay couples long for children bears witness to how fruitful their love is. The fact that most gay and lesbian couples endure extraordinary physical, emotional, and financial hardships to have children demonstrates of how deep their desire and commitment is to widening their loving relationship by creating a family.

To make procreation and gender complementarity the criteria for marriage simply does not do justice to the Catholic sacramental imagination. To believe that a sacramental marriage cannot happen between two people of the same sex is to place limits on God’s power to work within the relationships of God’s beloved children.

If we take seriously the Catholic notion of sacramental love, then our concerns shouldn’t be over the anatomies of a couple, but whether or not the couple, through their commitment, brings the grace of God more fully into our world. Is their relationship inspiring others to greater faithfulness? Are they a sign of the power of forgiveness and unconditional love? Are the sacrifices that they make for one another an incarnation of the selfless love to which Jesus calls us?

Rather than concern over the anatomical reality of a couple, the sacramental nature of marriage should judged by whether there is equality and mutuality between spouses, whether the relationship helps both spouses to flourish individually and as a couple, and whether their relationship brings the love, mercy, and faithfulness of God more fully into our world.

So, for me, the reason that both the marriage amendment and the voter id amendment violate my Catholic beliefs is because both amendments disregard the dignity of the human person. Both throw up barriers between a citizens ability to have full participation and equal protection under the law.

But even more deeply, the reason that both the marriage amendment and the voter id amendment violate my Catholic beliefs is because both amendments disregard and, in fact, do harm to the sacramental life that is working and flowing through LGBT couples, through the poor, elderly, marginalized, and the disadvantaged.

Many people in Minnesota I have spoken with have said that if one amendment is defeated, but the other one passes, it will feel like a hollow victory. Such a thought articulates beautifully the Catholic social justice call for “solidarity between all peoples.” As Pope Paul VI’s wrote in Populorum Progressio, “there can be no progress towards the complete development of the human person without the simultaneous development of all humanity in the spirit of solidarity.”

John Paul II fleshed out this idea further in his encyclical Sollicitudo Rei Socialis, where he says that solidarity is “not a feeling of vague compassion, but a firm and persevering determination to commit oneself to the common good, that is to say to the good of all and of each individual because we are all really responsible for all.”

Johan Verstraeten in “Rethinking Catholic Social Thought As A Tradition” (2000) points out that solidarity is bearing “radical witness to our love of our neighbor.” It goes far beyond any form of enlightened self-interest and includes “relationships of community, sociability, conviviality, civility, fraternity, civic friendship, social consciousness, and public spirit. Without solidarity any understanding of other values such as justice, human rights, freedom, subsidiarity and the common good in Catholic thought is impossible.”So, as you go to the polls next month, and you vote no and no, you will be defending civil rights; you will be protecting future generations; As Catholic you will also be honoring your social justice tradition in your act of solidarity, and you will be participating the sacramental life by recognizing our calling to affirm the goodness, value and holiness of each individual as a beloved child of God.

Jamie L. Manson
September 29, 2012

Jamie L. Manson received her Master of Divinity degree from Yale Divinity School where she studied Catholic theology and sexual ethics. Her columns for the National Catholic Reporter earned her a first prize Catholic Press Association award for Best Column/Regular Commentary in 2010.

A writer based in New York, she is the former editor in chief of the Yale magazine Reflections. As a lay minister she has worked extensively with New York City’s homeless and poor populations. A frequent speaker and retreat leader, she is a regular homilist for the New York City chapter of DignityUSA, and has served on the board of the Women’s Ordination Conference.

Above: Featured speakers at C4ME-MN's September 29 event included (from left) Eric Fought of Our Vote, Our Future; National Catholic Reporter columnist Jamie L. Manson; and Jonathan Maurer-Jones of Minnesotans United for All Families.

Above: C4ME-MN Executive Coordinator Michael Bayly with C4ME-MN board members Kathleen Olsen (left) and Mary Kay Orman.

Above: CPCSM President Mary Beckfeld (right) chats with attendees of C4ME-MN's September 29 event. For information about C4ME-MN's "Another Catholic Voting No" yard sign, click here.

Above: Jamie Manson (left) with C4ME-MN board members Cheryl Mahoney and Kathleen Olsen.

1. "The Busy Christian's Guide to Catholic Social Teaching," U.S. Catholic.
2. Ibid.

Related Off-site Link:
Why Do So Many Catholics Support Marriage Equality? Blame the Catholic Imagination – Jamie L. Manson (National Catholic Reporter, October 10, 2012).

Images: Michael J. Bayly.

Monday, October 22, 2012

Loving Couples Raising Children

By Brian Willette, Ph.D.

Some religious leaders -- including some, but not all, bishops -- want to limit marriage to only opposite-sex couples. Although state law already does so, they want to go further by amending our state’s constitution.

One of the reasons, if not the main one, given by these religious leaders and some others is that children who grow up in the parenting care of a opposite-sex couple fare much better than children who grow up in the parenting care of a same-sex couple.

However, research studies on same-sex couples’ parenting come to a different conclusion.

At a 2005 Conference of the American Academy of Pediatrics, Ellen C. Perrin, MD, a professor of pediatrics at Tufts University School of Medicine, gave a report entitled, “Study: Same-Sex Parents Raise Well-Adjusted Kids.”

In the study, researchers looked at information gleaned from 15 studies on more than 500 children. Reporting on the study, Dr. Perrin said, “The vast consensus of all the studies show that children of same-sex parents do as well as children whose parents are heterosexual in every way.”

In a WebMD’s Health News article, Louise Chang, MD also reviewed the study. Based on her review, Dr. Chang states: “Children growing up in same-sex parental households do not necessarily have differences in self-esteem, gender identity, or emotional problems from children growing up in heterosexual parent homes.”

Evidence-based studies are necessary to understand the outcomes of same-sex parenting on children. Opinions based only on emotions or biased speculation are often strongly held but seldom grounded in reality.

It is not surprising that children raised in a loving home created by a loving couple--a same-sex or opposite-sex couple -- thrive much better than children raised in a home where loving parental care is absent or in short supply.

All loving couples tend to have family and friends who share their love with the couple’s children. Love multiplies, creating a village of loving care.

In villages of loving care, there are many role models -- both male and female -- that have a positive influence on a couple’s children. Truly blessed are the children who grow up in the parental care of a loving couple and experience the benefits of a loving village.

In a society that values liberty and justice for all, civil law needs to recognize the marital rights of couples -- opposite or same sex -- support their relationships, and their efforts to create loving homes for their children.

It is understandable that a given religion’s official teachings, policies or practices regarding marriage may differ from civil law. In our country, civil law recognizes this and does not force any faith community to officiate at or recognize marriages it does not condone.

Most religions value love, compassion and caring for the young and vulnerable. All religious leaders and members of faith communities should reflect on the harm done to same-sex couples, their children and extended families when they are denied a civil marriage and the benefits that it confers.

When civil law recognizes same sex marriages, benefit accrue to the couple and their children. Next-of-kin and inheritance issues are clarified. Same-sex marriage aids the stability to the couple’s relationship, assures the same work related benefits enjoyed by opposite-sex married couples, and improves the long term financial security of the family.

When the marital rights of loving same-sex couples are not protected by civil law, marginalization and harassment of those couples and their children are given tacit approval by the silence of the law. The lack of recognition by civil law tends to feed and support the discrimination of same-sex couples and the bullying of their children.

For the sake of loving same-sex couples, their children, and the common good of our society, I urge my fellow Minnesotans to vote “NO” on the marriage amendment that seeks to restrict civil marriage to only certain loving couples and constitutionally deny it to others.

See also the previous Sensus Fidelium posts
Why Catholics Can Vote 'No'
Marriage Amendment Not In Best Interest of Children and Families
The Marriage Amendment
A Few Questions . . .
A Catholic Case for Same-Sex Marriage
Theological Considerations Behind Opposition to the Proposed Minnesota 'Marriage Amendment'
"This is the Living Word"

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Weekly Vigil for All Minnesota's Families Continues at Cathedral

. . . with a special vigil planned for October 23

For over five months a dedicated group of Catholics has gathered weekly at the Cathedral of St. Paul for a prayer vigil for all Minnesota's families. Organizers of the vigil note that the weekly gathering welcomes all and serves as "an expression of support for the inherent dignity of all God’s people and the promotion of the spiritual well-being of every family."

When the vigil began in April, Fr. Joseph Johnson, Pastor of the Cathedral, told the group that “public prayer” had to be approved in advance by his office. He also deemed the purpose of the vigil to “contradict” the Church’s positions. Told that the Rosary could not even be whispered, the vigiling group decided to pray together in silence. They’ve continued doing so every Tuesday at 6:00 p.m. for the past five months.

Recently, members of the vigiling group met and decided to continue their prayer, in silence. They feel that such silence has "taken on power from their respectful commitment."

The group is also encouraging others to start prayer vigils in their own parish churches and then to write about them (via the comments section of this post) so "we can build up our spiritual presence across the State of Minnesota and the country." For instance, the St. John Neumann parish in Eagan (which has become active on the Vote No issue and has a parish team), is saying the rosary weekly in solidarity with those who gather at the Cathedral. They are saying their Rosary in their parish chapel.

Organizers also invite all area Catholics to a special vigil at the Cathedral at 6:00 p.m. on Tuesday, October 23. The significance of this date is that it is two weeks before the November 6 election and, in Minnesota, the vote on the so-called ‘marriage amendment,’ a proposed constitutional amendment supported by the Catholic hierarchy but which many Catholics believe is hurtful and unfair to same-sex couples and families.

Thursday, October 4, 2012

I Walked Out . . .

By Leslie Hittner

Note: This commentary was first published October 2, 2012 by the Winona Daily News.

I walked out of church Sunday. I didn’t walk out at the end of the service. I walked out about half-way through. I am a Catholic, and my bishop — along with other Minnesota bishops — has mandated that we all say a prayer that I cannot agree with. Today was the first Sunday that our parish was asked to recite that prayer — a prayer that mouthed the wording of the Minnesota marriage amendment that will appear on our ballots in November.

Yes, I walked out of church today. I didn’t make any noise. I didn’t shout “When are the Catholics in the pews going to be heard?” I didn’t point out that because of the sex abuse scandal the bishops have lost much of their moral authority.

While I walked out of church today, I didn’t shout “I am going to vote ‘no’ on the Minnesota marriage amendment.” I simply displayed two buttons on my shirt: “Another Catholic voting NO,” and “Ask me why I’m voting NO.”

Then, when I got outside, I asked myself, “Where do I go from here?” Do I walk out again next week? Should I even go to church next week? Did anyone even notice what I did? If so, did they understand why? Did they care?

The Catholic Church along with conservative lawmakers would have this country change the fundamental nature of its federal and state constitutions. A basic principle of the Great American Experiment is the encoding of an evolutionary system into our defining documents. The real experiment in America — one that apparently conservatives and the Roman Catholic hierarchy do not understand — is that the built-in creative stressors that were established between legislative, administrative and judicial branches of government are a strength, not a weakness. The ongoing continuous dialogue between these three branches of government and the people is forced by our founding documents. That continuous social dialogue ensures that our system is always seeking ever better answers to social and political problems and issues. It can get messy, but it works.

The founding documents of these 50 states — including the constitutions — define how this evolutionary system is to work. They do so by granting freedoms and liberties to the people and defining limitations on the powers of government.

When we legislate by changing our founding documents, we weaken the entire system. We end important social conversations with a single closing statement: “That’s the way it is!”

I don’t know if my letters will have an impact on the vote this fall, but I am certain that I can’t change the Roman Catholic Church — not alone anyway.

I guess I’ll walk out again next week — and the week after that. Perhaps someone else will notice. Perhaps the laypeople of the Church will someday be able to make an impact on this non-democratic institution — without leaving it.

Perhaps . . .

Leslie Hittner is a community columnist with the Winona Daily News.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

'Catholics Calling Catholics' Initiative Launched

Minnesotans United for All Families, the statewide campaign that is working to defeat the 'marriage amendment,' has launched a phone banking initiative called Catholics Calling Catholics.

The initiative, part of the campaign's People of Faith Conversation Drive, is currently running five times a week between now and election day. It runs parallel to a similar program entitled Lutherans Calling Lutherans.

Sabrina Mauritz, Faith Organizer with Minnesotans United for All Families, notes that: "We are calling identified Catholics and Lutherans across Minnesota whom we believe are undecided on the amendment. Many voters who are still undecided are wrestling with concerns about religion. As a person of faith, YOU can be the person to reach these voters and help them see a path to vote NO."

A basic training in respectful conversations, including specific tips on speaking about the 'marriage amendment,' is offered to newcomers at each session.

Following is the schedule for the Catholics Calling Catholics initiative.

• Mondays, 6:00-9:00 p.m. – Grace University Lutheran Church (324 Harvard St, Minneapolis 55414) Parking Lot AA is available across Harvard Street from church for free, no permit needed.

• Tuesdays, 6:00-9:00 p.m. – Lutheran Church of the Redeemer (285 North Dale St, St. Paul 55103)

• Wednesdays, 6:00-9:00 p.m. – Macalester Plymouth United Church (1658 Lincoln Ave, St. Paul 55105)

• Thursdays, 6:00-9:00 p.m. – Edina Community Lutheran Church (4113 West 54th St, Minneapolis 55424). NOTE: On Thursday, October 4, the venue will be Holy Trinity Lutheran Church (2730 East 31st St., Minneapolis)

• Saturdays, 11:00 a.m.–2:00 p.m. – Luther Seminary, Northwestern Hall (1501 Fullham St, St. Paul 55108)

See also the previous Sensus Fidelium posts:
A Catholic Q&A on the 'Marriage Amendment'
Shall We Talk About the 'Marriage Amendment'?
Why Catholics Can Vote 'No'
The Marriage Amendment
Celebrate Marriage Equality for All
Catholic Family with Lesbian Sister Weighs Marriage Amendment
C4ME-MN Spreads the 'Vote No' Message at Twin Cities Pride
Can "True Catholics' Support Same-Sex Marriage?
Marriage Amendment Not In Best Interest of Children and Families
"This is the Living Word"
Theological Considerations Behind Opposition to the Proposed Minnesota 'Marriage Amendment'
A Catholic Case for Same-Sex Marriage
Archbishop Just One of Many Catholic Voices in Gay Marriage Debate
A Prayer for Archbishop Nienstedt

Thursday, September 6, 2012

A Matter of Social Justice . . .

Catholics Voting 'No' on BOTH Amendments

When: Saturday, September 29, 2012
(7:00-9:00 p.m.)

Where: Fellowship Hall, Gloria Dei Lutheran Church
(700 Snelling Ave. S., Saint Paul, MN 55116)

Keynote Speaker: Jamie L. Manson.

On November 6 Minnesotans will be asked to vote 'yes' or 'no' on two ballot initiatives that seek to amend the state constitution. If either the 'voter photo ID amendment' or the 'marriage amendment' passes then the Minnesota constitution will be amended to restrict and/or deny important freedoms and rights to certain individuals and groups.

At C4ME-MN's September 29 event, A Matter of Social Justice, we'll hear from representatives of both 'Vote No' campaigns – Our Vote, Our Future and Minnesotans United for All Families. What's the latest news from both campaigns? How are their efforts proceeding? How can we get involved to help defeat both amendments? Come hear the answers to these and other questions on September 29.

Our keynote speaker for the evening will be National Catholic Reporter columnist Jamie L. Manson (see bio below). Jamie will help us 'make the connections' between the 'voter photo ID amendment' and the 'marriage amendment' as they relate to the struggle for full equality of LGBT people. In making these connections, Jamie will draw from Catholicism's rich tradition of social justice and human rights.

As a matter of social justice for LGBT people and others who will be negatively impacted if either or both amendments are passed, please join us on September 29!

To RSVP on Facebook, click here.

About the amendments

The Minnesota 'voter photo ID amendment' is seen by many as a right-wing power grab. This is because it proposes measures to restrict minority voters (students, people of color, seniors, the poor) from the polls. These minority groups tend not to vote for right-wing agendas, including the undermining and/or prevention of LGBT rights legislation. A range of current and future advances in LGBT rights, not just 'marriage equality,' are thus threatened by the proposed 'voter photo ID amendment.' Proponents of the amendment say that it is needed to prevent or eliminate the threat of fraudulent voting. The campaign working to defeat the 'voter photo ID amendment' is Our Vote, Our Future.

The 'marriage amendment' will ask Minnesotans to vote on whether or not the state constitution should be amended so as to define marriage as “solely between one man and one woman.” If defeated, civil marriage rights will still be denied same-sex couples as Minnesota already bans these rights. However, if passed the 'marriage amendment' will send a hurtful message to LGBT individuals and families and make it virtually impossible for the courts to grant civil marriage rights to same-sex couples or for the state legislature to pass legislation in favor of such rights in the future. Proponents of the amendment say it is needed to "protect the sanctity of marriage." The campaign working to defeat the 'marriage amendment' is Minnesotans United for All Families.

About our keynote speaker

Jamie L. Manson received her Master of Divinity degree from Yale Divinity School where she studied Catholic theology and sexual ethics with Margaret Farley. Her weekly column, Grace on the Margins, appears in the National Catholic Reporter. Her writing has won numerous awards, most recently second place for Commentary of the Year (2012) from the Religion Newswriters (RNA). In January 2011, her essay on St. Joseph’s Hospital in Phoenix, AZ, was highlighted by Nicholas Kristof in his New York Times op-ed column. In November 2011, Jamie was a keynote speaker at the national Call to Action conference.

Jamie is the former editor in chief of the Yale magazine Reflections. As a lay minister, she has served two Manhattan churches in the roles of director of faith formation and as director of social justice ministries. In both churches she worked extensively with New York City’s homeless and poor populations

A frequent speaker and retreat leader, she is a regular homilist for the New York City chapter of DignityUSA, and has served on the board of the Women’s Ordination Conference.

Recommended Reading:
MN Voting Amendment Would Change Much More Than You Might Think – Mark Richie (MinnPost, September 6, 2012).
Voter ID Wars – Mo Rocca (New York Times, September 5, 2012).
Photo ID Edict Could Hit 215, 000 Minnesota Voters – Jim Ragsdale (Star Tribune, September 8, 2012).
For Some, Showing an ID to Vote Would Be Harder Than You Imagine – Haddayr Copley-Woods (Minnesota Public Radio, September 11, 2012).
Catholics, Lutherans and Voter ID – Lori Sturdevant (Star Tribune, September 8, 2012).
The Marriage Amendment as Decoy and How to Fight the Real Danger – Ricardo Levins Morales (Twin Cities Daily Planet, August 10, 2012).
Concise, Reasonable Answers to Marriage Equality Questions – Lisa Cressman (Star Tribune via The Wild Reed, January 19, 2012).
Catholic Q&A on the Minnesota 'Marriage Amendment' – Michael Bayly and Florence Steichen (Sensus Fidelium, August 7, 2012).
Why Catholics Can Vote 'No' – Bob Pierson, OSB (Sensus Fidelium, June 11, 2012).
Amendment Campaign Contrary to Church Moral Teaching – Paula Ruddy (The Progressive Catholic Voice, March 3, 2011).

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

The Marriage Amendment

By Don Conroy

Editor's Note: This article is also published at The Progressive Catholic Voice.

In November, the voters of Minnesota will be faced with a proposed amendment to the state constitution that, if passed, will restrict legal marriage in Minnesota to one man and one woman. The proposed amendment raises a number of interesting questions regarding the history, the meaning, and the purpose of marriage as an institution in human society. Of even more significance perhaps is this question – what would be the religious, social, and personal consequences of excluding a significant percent of our adult citizens from the advantages of legal marriage?

Marriage, like any other human institution, evolves. Its shape has depended on its geographic location and its historic moment. What constituted the presence of the marriage bond in Europe was not agreed on until the Gratian Decretals, c.1140. This bond was considered a sacrament, a sacred symbol between Christ and the People Of God, the Church, and thus indissoluble. This understanding of marriage was questioned by the Reformers of the 16th century, and divorce became a social reality in Europe.

The Industrial Revolution introduced another dimension as central to marriage; namely, a decline in the roles of the extended family network and the spread of "the conjugal system", a primary emphasis on the nuclear family unit of parents and their children.

In a very recent study, The Social Conquest Of Earth, Edward O. Wilson, the Nobel Laureate evolutionary biologist, raises these questions: which living species have spread throughout the whole of the earth, and what is the most important characteristic they have in common? He concludes that those species that have spread are a handful of insects, ants, bees, termites, et al. and humans. For all these species, the single most important common characteristic is their need for a safe and comfortable nest. For humans, this nest is the family.

Wilson's explanation for this conclusion is that these species have a genetic mutation that leads to what he calls "eusocial evolution", natural selection of groups as opposed to individual natural selection that restricts the species to procreation and protection of the nest. Group selection, which he refers to as a "general theory of inclusive fitness" allows for expansion and broader emigration and more complexity in the species. Eusocial evolved species require diversity in the social structure of the organization to function well. The precursors of today's humans, those species that did not survive to the present, did not develop the eusocial characteristic and were rendered extinct by the more developed species.

The safe and comfortable nest for humans is the family, and its marital component is and has been varied. The classic study Social Structure by George Murdock, published in 1949, pointed out that 193 out of 243 societies, the sample of his study, were polygamous. It was only 67 years prior to his study that polygamy was declared illegal in the U.S. by the Edmonds Act of 1882. In today's Western world, there are three meanings attributed to marriage by sociologists; the sacred, the social, and the personal. "At present, therefore, there is lack of uniform opinion as to the basic meaning of marriage." (The American Family, Ruth Cavan). The purposes of marriage are varied and cover a range from accomplishing religious values and supporting social order to providing personal happiness.

Today we confront another development in our understanding of family, the inclusion of same-sex couples in our social, personal, but not necessarily religious definition of marriage. What consequence, if any, would the inclusion of same-sex couples have on the family structure? Would the meaning of family, our safe, comfortable and developing nest, be significantly altered or even lost, as has been claimed (Nienstadt's "letter to the priests")? What would be the religious, social, and personal consequences of excluding a significant percent of our adult citizens from the advantages of legal marriage? These are the questions Minnesota voters face as they go to the polls in November to vote on the proposed amendment.

Donald R. Conroy, PhD, retired psychologist and marriage and family therapist, is a member of the newly formed Council of the Baptized, a collegial voice for Catholics in the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis. Formerly a Catholic priest ordained in 1955, Don is married to Mary K., with three grown and married children and seven grandchildren.

Sunday, August 26, 2012

"We Have Work to Do"

A young Catholic shares his thoughts on the state of the church

Note: The following address was delivered by Joe Kruse at Catholics for Marriage Equality MN's August 15 event, "I Do! Believe in Marriage Equality."

My name is Joe Kruse. I am a Catholic Worker who lives in an intentional community/house of hospitality in South Minneapolis. I am also Catholic, born and raised. Several times, I have gone and come back to my faith tradition. I’ve been at times proud and at other times horribly embarrassed to call myself Catholic. But for the past three years I have consistently found an immense deal of comfort and motivation in my identity as a Catholic. I have found, at its roots, a set of ideas based on revolutionary love. I have found in its unique traditions, symbolism, and images a connection to my sense of home and family. As a result, I hope to call myself Catholic for a long time to come.

However, I am one of the few young, non-conservative Catholics I know. It seems that most American Catholics my age are usually socially conservative, especially when it comes to equal rights for LGBTQ people. The more inclusive Vatican II tradition that many older Catholics know, is not the message that my generations’ Catholics are hearing. Most Catholic institutions we were raised in seem to be joined at the hip with right-wing politics and fervent evangelism.

I fear that if we cannot change the face of Catholicism in our country, my generation will cease to claim the identity. American Catholicism will dwindle as a cultural force if it does not change its focus almost completely. Many Catholics I know are simply tired of even trying to change the hierarchy, the institution, the Catholic system. A rigid hierarchy composed almost exclusively of white, celibate men often seems too backward, too archaic to even attempt to change.

So people leave the Catholic Church. We see it happen all the time, especially among my peers. Maybe the Catholic Church in America will shrink, maybe it will disappear, maybe it won't. But here is one thing I know for sure: there are those that believe in a Catholicism founded on a deep love, a love meant to challenge us; there are those that believe in a non-violent, loving Jesus Christ. And I will never forget that this is what my tradition is built on. It's simple.

One of my three brothers is gay. I have seen him struggle with the church and our families connection to it. His pain runs deep and I will never truly know how the Catholic institutions have scarred him. But I do know that I love him, and that the Catholicism I believe says he is just as holy and human as me. Any structure that denies my brother the same beauty that I hope surrounds my marriage, I will work tirelessly to bring down. Catholics of Minnesota should be warned: if we don’t change the image of our Catholicism, the hearts and minds of tomorrow will be unable to call themselves Catholic. The world is changing, the world is becoming more open and loving, and American Catholicism needs to catch up. We have work to do.

See also the previous Sensus Fidelium posts:
For All the Children
Catholic Q&A on the Minnesota 'Marriage Amendment'

Image: Michael J. Bayly.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

For All the Children . . .

"For All the Children," the powerful and inspiring music video made by over 300 Catholics in April of this year, was premiered last night at a special C4ME-MN event entitled "I Do! Believe in the Freedom to Marry."

Please share this video far and wide through your online social networks. Also, if you were part of the making of this video and/or present at last night's premiere, please consider sharing your thoughts and experiences in a written piece that we can post on Sensus Fidelium. Reflections and articles can be e-mailed to

Finally, for images and commentary on C4ME-MN's "I Do! Believe in the Freedom to Marry" event, visit this album on our Facebook page.

"For All the Children": Music and lyrics by David Lohman.

Recommended Off-site Link:
Catholics Rally for Freedom to MarryStar Tribune (August 19, 2012).

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

An Update on Tonight's Event

C4ME-MN's "I Do! Believe in the Freedom to Marry" will be taking place this evening (7:00-8:30) in Loring Park as originally planned. Don't forget your blanket and/or lawn chair! Also, yard signs will be available!

We look forward to seeing you this evening at Loring Park for an inspiring night of solidarity and entertainment!

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Yard Signs Now Available!

An eye-catching yard sign declaring "Another Catholic Voting No" is C4ME-MN's latest effort to get the word out that Catholics can in good conscience vote 'no' on the Minnesota 'marriage amendment.' As you know, the 'marriage amendment' refers to the November 6, 2012 ballot initiative that asks Minnesotans to vote on limiting the freedom to marry by amending the state constitution to define marriage as “solely between one man and one woman.” (For more about the amendment, see here, here and here.)

Because of our non-profit status, our yard signs are not for sale. However, a $10 donation per yard sign is recommended and would be greatly appreciated.

For information about ordering and picking up signs in St. Paul,
contact Mary Kay Orman at 
or call 651-699-1671.

For Minneapolis ordering and pick-up information,
contact Michael Bayly at 
or call 612-201-4534.

Burnsville and area residents, contact
Rose McMurray at 612-710-8327.

Winona residents, contact
Leslie Hittner at

Red Wing residents, contact
Tom Bottolene at

St. Cloud residents, contact
Danielle Bunting at

To view and/or order our DVD, Catholics for Marriage Equality, click here.

NOTE: Our yard sign was first unveiled at C4ME-MN's "I Do! Believe in the Freedom to Marry" event on August 15, 2012. For photos and commentary on this event, click here.

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Catholic Q&A on the Minnesota 'Marriage Amendment'

Following are concise answers to nine frequently asked questions about the Minnesota 'marriage amendment.' We hope these responses will complement the previously published Tips for Speaking as a Catholic in Support of Marriage Equality, a resource that offers more in-depth responses.

1. What is the ‘marriage amendment’?

The 'marriage amendment' refers to the November 6, 2012 ballot initiative that will ask Minnesotans to vote on whether or not the state constitution should be amended so as to define marriage as “solely between one man and one woman.”

2. If the amendment is passed, how will it affect Minnesota law?

It will have no effect as Minnesota already bans civil marriage rights for same-sex couples. It will, however, make it virtually impossible for the courts to grant civil marriage rights to same-sex couples or for the state legislature to pass legislation in favor of such rights in the future.

3. If the amendment is defeated, how will it affect the Roman Catholic Church?

There would be no effect whatsoever. If the ‘marriage amendment’ is defeated in November, same-sex civil marriage will still be illegal in Minnesota. And if civil marriage rights were one day extended to same-sex couples, our nation’s separation of church and state would guarantee that churches, including the Roman Catholic Church, would always have the freedom to choose whom they marry.

4. Since the bishops are strongly urging a ‘yes’ vote, can a faithful Catholic vote ‘no’?

Yes, a faithful Catholic can vote ‘no.’ This is because our tradition teaches that conscience is the highest norm and that we are to follow our conscience even in opposition to official church authority. In 1968, Fr. Joseph Ratzinger (now Pope Benedict XVI) expressed the Church’s understanding of the primacy of conscience: “Above the pope as an expression of the binding claim of church authority stands one’s own conscience, which has to be obeyed first of all, if need be against the demands of church authority.”

5. Why are the bishops telling Catholics to vote ‘yes’?

The bishops see the granting of civil marriage rights to same-sex couples as a threat to the meaning of marriage and to the church’s religious liberty. In truth, however, in their support of the ‘marriage amendment,’ the bishops have made numerous unsubstantiated claims and provoked false fears. They warn, for instance, that if civil marriage rights are extended to same-sex couples, churches will be forced to perform sacramental marriage for a gay couple. This is untrue. (See response to Q. 3)

6. Why are many Catholics conflicted or committed to voting ‘no’?

The reasons are numerous. Many are torn between the urgings of the hierarchy to support the amendment and their wanting to support the gay people they know and, in many cases, lovingly accept. Many are unconvinced by the arguments of the bishops, recognizing instead that supporting legal recognition of adult, same-sex unions as marriages does not go against any church teaching. It is a prudential decision regarding what is best for the common good in a pluralistic society. For example, Catholic teaching opposes divorce, but this does not translate into an obligation to work for the repeal of secular divorce laws or prevention of their passage by a constitutional amendment banning civil divorce.

7. Doesn’t the Bible condemn homosexual relations?

Modern biblical scholarship approved by the Church shows that passages in Leviticus and elsewhere condemn homosexual rape and pagan worship involving sexual rituals. Since the biblical writers had no concept of homosexual orientation, the Bible does not condemn loving, committed same-sex relationships.

8. Why use the word ‘marriage’ to describe same-sex unions?

In our society it is only the word ‘marriage’ that conveys the joy, connection, and deep commitment that is made between two people who love one another. In addition, civil marriage automatically provides the rights and responsibilities of 515 statutes in Minnesota law to opposite-sex couples and families. That these are denied to same-sex couples and families strikes many as hurtful and unfair.

9. The bishops insist that same-sex marriage will harm children. Is this true?

Because the bishops are not calling for the large number of children already being raised by same-sex couples to be removed from their families, many Catholics question the integrity of the claim that children are in danger. Research has consistently shown that lesbian and gay parents do not differ from heterosexuals in their parenting skills, and that their children do not show any deficits compared to children raised by heterosexual parents. It is the quality of the parenting that predicts children’s psychological and social adjustment, not the parents’ sexual orientation or gender. It also concerns many Catholics that by denying same-sex couples the right to marry, the State is reinforcing and perpetuating the stigma historically associated with homosexuality. According same-sex couples inferior status relative to opposite-sex couples gives rise to ostracism, harassment, discrimination, and violence. For Catholics, such treatment is unacceptable. The bishops themselves teach that the “intrinsic dignity of each person must always be respected in word, in action and in law.” (Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Letter to Bishops of the Catholic Church on the Pastoral Care of Homosexual Persons. 1986.)

See also the previous Sensus Fidelium posts:
Fr. Bob Pierson: Why Catholics Can Vote 'No'
Marriage Amendment Not In Best Interest of Children and Families
Theological Considerations Behind Opposition to the Proposed Minnesota 'Marriage Amendment'
Tide is Turning on Public Perception of Same–Sex Marriage
A Catholic Case for Same-Sex Marriage
Catholics Lead the Way! – The Latest Statistics on Religious Support for Marriage Equality
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